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2008-02-28T15:14:00.002+01:00

Postovani blog prijatelji, trenutno prebacujem svoj blog na morgiana.blogger.ba Nadam se da tranzicija nece dugo trajati. Hvala vam na strpljenju. Morgiana

Woman to woman

2008-02-05T21:35:00.000+01:00

Does feminism fail women?By Mark Richardson, posted on Dads on the AirThe January 2007 Marie Claire featured the heartfelt life story of Danielle. She knew as a girl that she always wanted marriage and children:The eldest of five, I'd loved kids from an early age and knew, with an unwavering certainty that I would have at least two. I would live with my children and their father ...It was not,

Mother of the Year?

2008-01-18T10:36:00.000+01:00

BBC NewsGirl 'home alone for six weeks' The girl said she missed her mother, the court was told A woman abandoned her 14-year-old daughter for six weeks with just £100 and

Poruka od očeva iz Australije

2008-01-14T10:38:00.000+01:00

THE GROWTH OF A SOCIETAL CANCER By: Peter van de Voorde. Jan 2008 The Family Justice System has become a societal cancer, a place to be avoided at all cost. Like any cancer, if left unchecked, it will continue to grow, gaining momentum and eventually destroying its host victims and subsequently the culture which

Izgubljena generacija

2008-01-11T15:31:00.000+01:00

Tata u sjeni Bez obzira na naprednost zapadnih država i postojanje zajedničkog starateljstva, predrasuda o ocu kao nevažnom, ili manje važnom od majke postoji svugdje u svijetu. Ovo potvrđuje i postojanje stotina organizacija širom svijeta koje se bore za prava očeva na kontakt sa svojom djecom nakon razvoda. Razlike se vide u pristupu ovom problemu. Na zapadu već odavno vrše

Tužilaštvo kaže da nasilje iza zatvorenih vrata nije zločin

2008-01-10T22:08:00.000+01:00

U prilogu ispod je dokaz o bijedi pravde danas (dvije kopije: pritužba i odgovor).Ili o velikim privatnim vezama ...Scenario: muž i žena ne žive zajedno već godinu dana. Muž ima novu partnericu za koju je bivša tek saznala. Histerija. Jednog jutra (par dana nakon što je bivša saznala za novu partnericu) u subotu u 8 ujutro (septembra 2005.) partnerica u svome stanu sa svoje dvoje djece. Već dva

2008-01-09T15:05:00.000+01:00

Ako imate profil na Facebooku molim vas otiđite na Causes i nađite:"Every Child has a Right to Both Parents"Pridružite nam se!

Život sa majkom pakao

2008-01-08T22:44:00.000+01:00

Izjava Morgana Sowdena (www.otac.ba) policiji nakon lažne prijave bivše supruge da je oteo djecu u avgustu 2007(kliknite na sliku za uvećanu verziju)Članak sa moga bloga Sretan ti Bajram, Bozic, Nova godina a kad se vratis zavrsices u bolnici takođe je objavio Goran rainman - hvala puno Gorane! Ostavljeno je dosta komentara uz interesantnu polemiku, izdvajam par u prilogu. Sama sam razveden

Priča brojeva

2008-01-08T14:13:00.000+01:00

68% majki se slaže da su očevi podjednako dobri i sposobni roditeljiU 65% slučajeva nasilja nad djecom majke su počinitelji.U 8% slučajeva počinitelj nasilja nad djecom je otac.50% djece ubijene u okviru porodice ubiju njihove majke.Preko 50% slučajeva fizičkog i psihičkog nasilja nad djecom se dešava u porodicama samohranih majki.Vlade mnogih država finansiraju ženske organizacije milionima

Sretan ti Bajram, Bozic, Nova godina a kad se vratis zavrsices u bolnici

2007-12-18T16:44:00.000+01:00

U stanju pripravnosti: uvecan stepen rizika od teroristickih akcija Morgan Sowden, osnivač www.otac.ba , se još prije par mjeseci sa bivšom suprugom dogovorio o prazničnom rasporedu. Kako njegova porodica živi u Italiji i Engleskoj Božić obično slave u jednoj od te dvije zemlje. On je planirao da im se pridruzi sa svojom djecom ove godine. Ove godine majka djece se složila s tim da djeca

Pitanja o kojima razmišljam...

2007-12-13T15:55:00.001+01:00

Idealna djeca?

2007-12-13T15:54:00.001+01:00

Idealne žene?Katarina Tomić, Dženana Latić i Jasmina Kosović(tročlano vijeće Kantonalnog suda koje je pobilo presudu Opštinskog suda u Sarajevu kojom je Vlado Adamović, državni sudija BiH, proglašen krivim za seksualno uznemiravanje osamnaestogodišnje S. Š., na njenom radnom mjestu, u sarajevskoj cvjećari na Grbavici.)Pridružimo se Fondaciji CURE ZAUSTAVIMO NASILJEPOZIVNAPROTEST utorak,

Lost fathers

2007-11-15T12:02:00.000+01:00

Losing a father in war or to death is tragic. Having him taken away by the mother, the Court or social workers has the same tragic consequences on the child, but cannot be explained away by any reasonable necessity: it is mean and cannot be justified. Children of the Great War

Unequal equlity/Neravnopravna ravnopravnost

2007-11-09T22:04:00.000+01:00

Women are asking for 50/50 representation in government.Why can't fathers have 50/50 parenting after divorce? Why do they have to be their children's visitors at weekends and are only allowed to take them to the park for an hour?Why is it alright for mothers to call the police if a father is 2 minutes late returning the child to mother's house? Since when is it a crime taking care of your own

Fathers Pride

2007-11-09T14:05:00.001+01:00

Fathers' PrideWe are all dealing with the same problems and fighting for our children's right to be with and freely love both parents. Unfortunately, most of us have to work in secret, confined to our own country, city or even our home. Standing up for fathers' rights today seems to be a straight to prison path rather than one to contact with one's child. The United Nations recently declared

Koliko nas košta (ne)nadležnost?

2007-11-08T14:40:00.000+01:00

EVROPSKI SUD ZA LJUDSKA PRAVA Saopštenje Registra Odluke Doma koje se odnose na Bosnu i Hercegovinu, Gruziju, Moldaviju i Poljsku Šobota-Gajić protiv BiH (aplikacija broj: 27966/06) Tužiteljica, Verica Šobota-Gajić, drzavljanin BiH, rođena 1964 i živi u Novoj Toploj (BiH). Udala se za Z.G. 1992. i imaju kćerku A rođenu 1992. i sina B rođenog 1994. Ovaj slučaj se odnosi na

(Ne)odgovornost nadležnih za diskriminaciju

2007-11-08T10:50:00.000+01:00

Nepoznati autori plakata u Sarajevu i Zenici smo mi iz otac.ba :)Jedini odgovor Centra za socijalni rad na ovaj napad je bio, kako piše AS i Dnevni Avaz "Nismo mi krivi nego Sud". Uz to ide priznanje da se majkama uglavnom daje skrbništvo.Centar za socijalni rad izgleda nikako ne može da se makne sa svoje osnovne pozicije "Mi nismo nadležni". Zašto onda postoje? Ako nisu odgovorni nizašta onda ih

Alimentacija na bosanski način

2007-11-07T17:25:00.001+01:00

...ili Kako kazniti i oguliti oca...U prilogu je kopija obračuna osnovnih potreba djeteta starog 21 mjesec koji je sastavila majka djeteta a Centar za socijalni rad Banja Luka odobrio! Prema ovome obračunu dijete ne može opstati bez 900 KM mjesečno. Prosječna plata u BiH = 600 KM mjesečno.Zaključak: djecu se ne isplati imati.Ovakav obračun bi se trebao uručiti svakom paru na dan vjenčanja da

Equality is for everyone

2007-11-01T11:19:00.001+01:00

Otmica djeteta i spolna ravnopravnost

2007-10-29T14:30:00.000+01:00

Da li je ona, gospođa Pravda, zaista slijepa?Moju djecu je kidnapovao njihov otac i u isto vrijeme zatražio starateljstvo. Preselio se u novi grad ne ostavljajući mi ni adresu ni broj telefona. Dva dana nakon što sam prijavila otmicu dodijeljen mi je advokat čiji honorar za rad na mom slučaju u visini od 15 000 funti je platila vlada Engleske. Sedam dana kasnije djeca su pronađena, ja sam stupila

Two faces of gender equality battle

2007-10-29T12:16:00.001+01:00

In an article on BBC news Cherie Blair talks of gender inequality: "Culture and religion cannot be used as an excuse for discriminating against women, Cherie Blair has argued. Mrs Blair, ex-PM Tony Blair's wife and high-flying human rights lawyer, told the BBC: "Women and men are equal human beings and deserving of equal respect." But she said there was a "long way to go"

Measure my love/Vrijednost ljubavi

2007-10-25T12:52:00.000+02:00

How big is your love?Even those who support the fight for father's rights make statements such as "mother's love is special". This statement falls in the same category as "women should not vote" or "woman's place is in the kitchen". When a child is born two people become parents: mother and father. If neither of them gives up their parental rights and duties how is it possible to decide who is

Prejudice rules

2007-10-18T15:11:00.000+02:00

If all mankind minus one were of one opinion, mankind would be no more justified in silencing that one person than he, if he had the power, would be justified in silencing mankind. John Stuart MillWhen questioned why they almost always give custody to the mother social workers in the Balkans have a number of creative, ready prepared excuses. The most common one is that fathers who want to care

If you love your child you will let them be free to love

2007-10-16T22:15:00.000+02:00

The mother-child relationship is paradoxical and, in a sense, tragic. It requires the most intense love on the mother's side, yet this very love must help the child grow away from the mother, and to become fully independent. Erich FrommAko volite svoje dijete onda ćete ga osloboditi da i ono voliMajka mora ne samo tolerisati, već mora željeti i potpomagati djetetovo odvajanje. Tek u toj fazi

Parent value: which hug is worth more?

2007-10-16T17:52:00.001+02:00

Procijenite roditelja: koji zagrljaj vrijedi više?

Human Rights Musical Chairs

2007-10-16T14:58:00.000+02:00

I was in a police station recently (will post the whole story soon) asking for their help and assistance as i was being harassed and threatened by a person who had already assaulted me before. Policeman took my statement and after finding out I worked in a human rights institution he proudly told me:"I can't help you. Because of you I cannot do my work properly, like I used to. Its because of

Balkan network

2007-10-15T21:59:00.001+02:00

Fathers' rights campaigners from Croatia and Bosnia meeting in Zagreb in September 2007. I am thrilled to be part of the movement! Keep up the good work.

Why Fathers' Rights?

2007-10-15T13:27:00.000+02:00

Losers appropriately punishedVery simply: because after divorce they have none. They are discriminated against, marginalised, not allowed to see their children or participate in their upbringing. More importantly: because children need them as much as they need their mothers. Growing up I admired a number of people fighting for equal rights of us all. Most of all I admired Clara Zetkin and

Expectations

2007-10-10T22:30:00.001+02:00

One of the major factors affecting father's rights in BiH are general expectations, by both the father, as well as the mother. It is conventional wisdom in BiH that custody of children should be given to the mother, and the father should be allowed to see them every second weekend, usually for 24 hours, and sometimes less.Where did this "standard" come from? Nowhere.As long as both parents live

Current Objectives

2007-10-10T22:29:00.000+02:00

As a relatively new phenomenon in the Balkans, at first we plan to collect and analyze information related to fathers separated from their children. Informal evidence shows that the problem is endemic. We plan to formalize the evidence and prepare a report for the social services.We also plan to:1: Join forces with all other fathers facing the same problem.2: Inform and empower fathers to make

Rights, biology and children in focus

2007-10-10T13:55:00.000+02:00

We fought hard to prove we can do anything men can. How long before they prove they are equally good parents?Otac - kolac is a saying everyone is familiar with in the Balkans. It means that a father is very much like a plank of wood: tough, emotionless and lacking warmth. More recently, social workers in Bosnia's capitol have used similarly simple description of mother's role and status in the

Family: New Arena of Gender Equality Battle

2007-10-10T11:17:00.001+02:00

Who's the daddy?Women have fought a long and hard battle for gender equality. Western democracies, founded hundreds of years ago on the premise of "equality", were "equal" for white males only.Thanks to the brave struggle of the feminist movements, industrialization, and general social change driven by advances in technology and the mass media, most democracies today enjoy ever better levels of